I’m sure everyone’s been asked, “Would you rather be a guy or a girl?” I’ve always said that I’d rather be a girl cuz there isn’t the pressure to be the bread winner. Most guys’ll say they’d rather be a guy cuz they don’t have to get periods. The thing is, now, I’d rather be a guy. Not cuz of periods, not cuz of the future, but cuz of the present.
Men don’t understand the kind of crap women have to put up with every day. Women are the target, the prey. Men are the predator. It’s much easier to attack than to be attacked. Screw the crap about how men have the work up courage to talk to a girl, or that it’s hard to make the first move. Men are pigs and dogs. They’ll say or do whatever it takes to get what they want. It’s not about the girl; it never was.
Girls are human too. We have emotions, we’re sensitive, we KNOW when we’re being exploited. We want to be seen for who we are and what we have to offer. We’re smarter than we look. We know when words are just empty words. Most guys only speak empty words. For every sincere, genuine, nice guy you find me, I can find you 1,000 assholes. It’s not that women don’t appreciate being complimented, but we want our physical beauty to come third to our mind and our heart.
Women appreciate men who take the time to get to know them. Men who take the time to understand what we like, what we don’t like, what makes us laugh, what makes us smile, what makes us tick. We’re complex but also simple. Who we are, what we need, doesn’t change greatly over time. Men just think we’re mysteries because they never took the time to get to know us. We have passions and desires. We have special parts of us tucked in our heart of hearts.
I’m sick of guys thinking with their dicks. It’s expected, it’s understood, but i’m sick of it. Guys don’t realize the crap women have to deal with on a day-to-day basis. They don’t understand the double standard we live under in our society. They don’t understand how strong we need to be just to survive. We’re strong. We have to be. We would go insane otherwise.
PS: It’s such a turn off when guys are overly possessive, jealous, and selfish when they have noooo right. If a girl isn’t yours, she isn’t yours. You have NO right.
