I found this post on one of my old blogs. I thought it was interesting…mostly cuz I still completely stand by it. Here it is:
“I think it’s mildly funny the way guys spend years trying to figure girls out when girls are so simple. All girls want the same thing. All girls need the same thing. Yet, mistake after mistake, fight after fight, guys still can’t see it or understand it.
Every girl wants to know she’s irreplacable, she’s timeless. Every girl wants to be loved for her heart and mind, not just her face. Please, not just her face. Every girl wants to know she’s thought of and missed. Every girl wants to feel important and wanted. Every girl wants to know that she matters to someone else. Every girl wants to be fought for, to know she’s worth fighting for.
It’s more than a phone call. It’s more than roses and chocolate. It’s more than just saying, “I love you.” It’s about the feeling she gets. Girls want to look into a guys eyes and see herself. Girls want to be held and feel safe. Girls want to hear, “It’ll be ok” and believe it with her whole heart. She doesn’t want to see the love. She wants to feel it.
Let her know she’s cherished. Let her know you’ll fight for her. Let her know she’s wonderful to you.”